spider bites!!

a spider bit me two nights ago, I noticed it yesterday morning. two bites on the inside of my wrist. its getting worse! they are way swollen today because I itched them, and my hand aches a little and tingles. weird thing is, hubby had the same thing happen to him a few weeks ago! spider bites on the wrist, in the middle of the night. and he said his hands hurt and then went numb and then he was fine the next day. excuse me for a second while I take a departure and say WTF????

I've had a thought lately. its strange how you think you know how you want to be when you grow up, so you work on it, you practice, you get comfortable with the results, then you marry and your spouse wants the opposite personality and habits you just worked to cultivate. I want to be fun and relational, I want to set aside housecleaning to play with my babies and to spend time with my hubby. I worked really hard to balance that. thats not what he wants!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
he wants me to work my butt off keeping things meticulously clean and get dinner made and not pay attention to him. I'm so not that kind of person! this is going to be hard............